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Says Who? Why Jesus Gets the Final Word (Matthew 17) | Pastor Rod Gomez
00:00 Simon Says
00:15 The Authority Behind Commands
00:59 Competing Voices in the World
01:55 The Importance of Listening to Jesus
03:11 God's Endorsement of Jesus
03:34 The Transfiguration of Jesus
03:58 The Significance of Best Friends
04:22 The Glory of Jesus Revealed
05:03 Moses and Elijah's Appearance
05:49 God's Declaration from the Cloud
08:34 Carefully Considering Jesus' Words
16:03 The Disciples' Test and Jesus' Response
18:33 The Goal of Demons
19:06 Faith and Prayer
19:48 The Importance of Mega Faith
20:36 The Power of Prayer
23:04 Misguided Prayers
26:05 Trusting God's Will
32:46 Enjoying the Privileges of Sonship
36:58 Final Reflections and Prayer
Transcript
Are you ready?
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:Simon says, stand up
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:Alright.
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:Alright.
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:Simon says, quiet down.
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:Simon says, actually, pastor
Ross says, quiet down.
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:I have more authority than Simon.
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:Tonight we're gonna talk about says
who, just like the game of Simon
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:says, what you do, how you respond
to a command depends on who the
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:authority is that issues the command.
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:If the authority says, do
this, then you should do that.
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:Right?
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:Simon says, do this and you
did it because of who Simon is.
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:Who the heck is Simon?
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:No one even knows.
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:But what matters more is who says to do
the things that the Bible tells us to do.
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:And tonight we're gonna see that what's
behind the commands of scripture are
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:not just some random dude who lived
:
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:who is the son of God and son of man.
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:So when we talk about the question
of says who we're gonna say, Jesus is
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:the one who tells us what to do in the
Bible and why should we should respond.
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:Furthermore, think about this in the world
today, you have a lot of voices that are
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:competing for you to do what they say.
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:It.
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:People want you to wear their clothes.
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:They want you to wear their cologne.
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:They want you to go to their school.
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:They want you to dress like
them, get their same haircut.
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:People want you to think like them.
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:They want you to vote like them.
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:People want to control you in a
lot of different ways, and you
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:have a lot of different options, a
lot of different choices, and you
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:have to decide who do I listen to?
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:Who do I decide to listen
to with the decisions that
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:I have to make with my life?
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:You're gonna have friends
that have opinions about the
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:person that you should date.
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:Oh, did you know this girl likes you?
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:She thinks you're cute.
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:You should ask her out.
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:You should slide into her
DMS and see what she says.
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:No.
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:Okay.
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:People are gonna have
opinions about your parents.
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:Your parents won't let you do what?
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:Oh, that's weird.
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:My parents, let me do this,
this, this, and this and this.
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:Your parents are lame.
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:You let them influence you.
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:Why do people have things
that they want to tell you?
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:They want to.
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:They want you to live in certain ways.
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:They want you to do certain
things, and the question that you
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:have to ask is, well says Who?
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:Says who?
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:Who says that my parents are this way?
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:Who says that?
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:That girl likes me?
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:Who says that this or them?
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:And those are good questions,
but the most important questions
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:about your life are says who?
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:When it comes to how should I live?
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:What should I do with my life?
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:Well, it depends.
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:Depends on who's telling
you what to do with.
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:It says, who wouldn't it be so great if
God just opened up the clouds and said
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:to you, put, you put your name in here.
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:And he says, here's what
I want you to do, Lewis.
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:I want you to marry Shea.
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:Wouldn't that be awesome if God did that?
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:Did God do that, Lewis?
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:Yeah, he did do that for Lewis.
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:Maybe you ought to pray that God
treats you like he treat Lewis.
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:Wouldn't it be great for God to
say, Matt, Daniel, I want you to go
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:to SMU for your college of choice.
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:Wouldn't that be great?
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:Wouldn't it be great when you have the
desire and the ability to get married?
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:God says,
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:Maggie, I want you to marry.
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:Okay.
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:I want you to marry a guy
that's not here in the room.
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:Wouldn't that be so nice
for a guy to do that?
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:And yet.
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:He doesn't do that.
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:But here's what he does do.
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:He does break into the sky and
tell us, this is my beloved son.
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:I want you to listen to him.
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:That's what God does, and that's why
tonight's message is so important.
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:So turn with me, if you
will, to Matthew Chapter 17.
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:We're gonna look at what Jesus says and
how God says he wants us to listen to
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:him, what he wants us to do with him.
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:Okay.
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:Matthew chapter 17, starting at verse one.
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:Here's what we have.
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:Here's a scene after six days.
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:Jesus took with him,
Peter, James, and John.
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:Those are his three best friends.
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:By the way, don't let
anyone tell you otherwise.
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:Jesus has best friends.
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:He's got 12 disciples that he's
close to, but these three, Peter,
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:James, and John are his ride or dies.
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:They are the men that he always goes to.
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:They're the men that are with him in
his very last hours when he's praying.
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:They're the ones that are as closest
to him, so he calls to him as best
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:friends, Peter, James, and John.
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:By the way, how many
best friends do you have?
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:Yeah, if you have one, what a blessing.
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:If you have two, super blessing.
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:If you have three, then
you are crushing it.
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:You ought pray for best
friends like Jesus did.
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:Jesus.
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:That's the example for us.
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:You oughta listen to that.
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:We'll come back to that later.
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:He calls them and he led them up
to a high mountain by themselves.
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:Oh man, that's kind of a bummer here.
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:And he was, here's the word, transfigured.
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:The word means to be metamorphos,
to be changed in a major way.
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:Jesus is transformed before them.
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:And his face shone like the sun and
his clothes became white as light.
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:What you're seeing here is the
glory of Jesus pulled back and
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:made evident to his disciples.
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:They're able to see something that
you and I will see at some point.
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:They got to see a glimpse of it, like
a trailer to the movie they're getting.
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:They're getting to see something
of who Jesus really is.
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:Stay shown and get this.
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:Verse three.
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:Behold, by the way, be the word behold.
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:When you see this word here,
the word means to, to look.
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:Pay attention to this.
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:Check this out.
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:So behold, look at this.
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:Pay attention.
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:Some guys show up.
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:They appear.
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:Moses and Elijah talking with him.
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:Moses represents the law.
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:Remember Moses is behind the books.
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:Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus,
Deuteronomy, oops, Genesis, Exodus,
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:Leviticus, numbers, Deuteronomy.
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:There you go.
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:There's the five books.
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:And Elijah represents the prophets.
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:And so you have the law and the prophets
coming to Jesus and what you have.
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:And after that, then.
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:Peter says, Lord, this is awesome.
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:This is so good that you're here.
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:I can see you're, you're
in your blazing glory.
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:Uh, and then we got Moses and
Elijah Peter's flipping out.
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:He's like, let's just build some tents.
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:This is great, but it doesn't stop there.
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:He was still speaking when check out verse
five, A bright cloud overshadowed them.
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:This is God.
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:God in the Old Testament would
often show up as a cloud.
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:He shows up there and he says,
with a voice from the cloud.
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:He says, this is my beloved son.
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:With him, with whom I am well pleased.
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:Listen to him.
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:So you see him.
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:Jesus is being radiated.
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:There's a glory that's
being shown to them.
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:Moses and Elijah, the law and
the prophets show up to pay.
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:Uh, to pay Jesus homage.
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:And then the father speaks up and says,
even though Moses and Elijah are here,
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:they're great and all, but Jesus is
better than the law and the prophets.
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:Jesus is superior to them because
he fulfills both of those things.
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:The father says, this is my beloved son.
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:What does the word beloved mean?
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:Think about that.
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:Have your parents ever
introduced you to their friends?
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:This is my beloved son Jackson.
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:This is my beloved daughter, Sophia.
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:Your parents ever do that.
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:When you introduce me to your friends, do
you say, this is my beloved youth pastor?
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:Nobody?
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:Not yet.
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:Okay.
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:Someday beloved means someone that is
special, a chosen loved one, someone
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:that you say, this is my person.
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:They are my special, uh, chosen
person that I will choose to put my
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:love upon for better and for worse.
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:God says about Jesus,
this is my beloved son.
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:Jesus is the son of God.
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:He's special in God's side.
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:And then he says, with
Jesus, I'm well pleased.
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:He's telling everybody, and this
is not the first time God says,
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:says this about Jesus, but he
says, with Jesus, I'm well pleased.
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:That is what Jesus is doing.
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:I'm really excited about, and there's
nothing that Jesus can do to make
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:me love him more or love him less
because he is perfect in my sight.
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:And then he says to all of us,
I want you to listen to him.
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:I want you to listen to him.
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:The disciples heard this.
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:They fell on their faces
and they were terrified.
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:If God were to speak out of the heavens
right now, sometimes we, we think,
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:oh, it'd be so cool if God showed up.
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:But in reality, if God showed up
right now and spoke to us, this would
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:be the same thing that you would
experience your face, you'd fall on
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:your face, and you would be terrified.
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:Have you ever heard those stories of
people that encounter angels and like, oh,
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:the angel told me that I was supposed to
go here, or I was taken to heaven, or I
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:was taken to hell, or something like that?
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:I, I wonder about those stories
because every time someone has an
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:encounter with God or an angel in
scripture, they're usually afraid.
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:They're usually terrified, and the way
that they typically respond is like this.
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:They fall on their
faces and they're shook.
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:You would be too, if God spoke there was a
cloud in this room and there's thunder and
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:lightning, and then God starts speaking to
us through the cloud, you would be shook.
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:They're shook.
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:Jesus says, Hey guys, don't worry.
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:Rise, get up.
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:You have no, no need to fear.
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:Lifted up their eyes.
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:There was no one but Jesus.
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:And so the law and the prophets disappear.
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:Moses and Elijah, Elijah are gone.
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:Jesus is there.
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:Remember what God says?
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:He's my beloved son.
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:I'm well pleased with him.
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:I want you to listen to him.
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:Point number one.
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:You ought to carefully
consider the son's words.
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:Carefully.
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:Consider the son's word.
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:Jesus is the son of God.
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:Therefore, you ought to listen to him.
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:We said, Simon says, do this or
that, and you guys did it, but God
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:says, Jesus says this and that.
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:Right?
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:You ought to listen to him.
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:Why?
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:Because God is endorsing
Jesus as the son of God.
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:He's saying, this is my son.
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:He's got my authority.
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:Listen to him.
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:He's the one that matters.
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:I want you to pay attention
to what Jesus says.
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:If you've gone to our church at Sunday
morning, you might not have noticed this,
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:but the air conditioner, when it's on,
it goes, Ooh, like that, super loud.
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:You can not hear it
except when you go inside.
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:Even though your brain might
register it, what will happen
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:is that you'll stop hearing it.
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:In fact, do you hear
what's happening right now?
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:Yes.
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:Do you hear it in the back?
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:That humming in the back?
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:I don't know what that is, but
it's making a sound back there.
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:When you walk into this room for
the first time, what do you smell?
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:Junior hires, cafeteria.
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:Junior hire.
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:What'd you say?
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:People you smell.
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:People you might smell stale.
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:Chicken nuggets.
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:You might smell cleaning supplies.
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:But all it takes is about 15 minutes.
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:And then what?
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:What do you smell?
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:Nothing.
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:Nothing.
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:You get used to it.
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:Your brain does something really cool.
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:It acclimate to the environment
after it realizes there's no
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:threat to your bodily harm.
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:Your brain says, okay,
I can shut this out.
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:And it stops listening
and it stops smelling.
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:You become nose blind to what's happening.
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:You become sound deaf to
what's happening around you.
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:The problem is that a lot
of us do this with Jesus.
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:You come to Wednesday nights and
you hear everything that, oh, I
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:feel like I've heard this before.
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:You go to Sunday mornings, you're pastor
PJ preach, oh, I've heard that before.
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:And then you start becoming
deaf to what Jesus is saying.
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:And this is really dangerous
because Jesus is speaking on
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:behalf of the authority of God.
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:You ought to carefully consider
the son's words or otherwise.
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:What you're gonna end up doing is
ignoring the only one who really matters.
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:You end up ignoring the words
that Jesus is saying to you, and
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:I can prove it to you right now.
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:Lemme ask you this question.
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:What has Jesus said to you through his
word that you're still not obeying?
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:All of us have something I can
promise you, all of us have something.
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:What has Jesus said in his word that
you're still not obeying at the,
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:the first time you felt conviction
about that you might have said,
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:oh man, I really should do that.
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:Jesus wants me to witness to my un, un
unsafe friends, or Jesus wants me to
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:give up listening to certain kinds of
this or playing certain kinds of that.
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:Jesus wants me to give these up.
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:And then the first time you felt that,
you might say, oh man, I feel conviction.
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:At some point though, you can so ignore
Jesus, that you just stop hearing him.
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:You stop feeling conviction
over the things that you
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:should feel conviction about.
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:This is why I'm saying you need
to carefully consider his worth
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:because this is not just some
random dude talking to you.
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:It's one thing for someone on the
street to say, Hey, I want you to
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:vote for this particular candidate.
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:I want you to, you know, vote for me
for a SB, and they want you to put
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:them on the a SB Student Council.
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:Well, fine.
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:Not a big deal.
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:Doesn't matter if you listen to them.
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:Doesn't matter if you do
or don't, not a big deal.
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:But when someone says, Hey, I'm the son of
God, you might say, okay, well prove it.
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:Okay.
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:How about this?
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:God breaks open the clouds
and says, this is my son.
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:Listen to him.
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:I mean, what else do you want?
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:Carefully consider the son's words.
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:Carefully consider his words, because
if you don't, you end up losing
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:all the benefits and privileges
that come with listening to him.
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:Says who?
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:Well says God,
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:Jesus is superior to the
law and the prophets.
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:Here's what that means for you.
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:If I'm gonna carefully consider what
he says, if he's superior to the law
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:and the prophets, that means Jesus
can be all of my righteousness.
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:He is my rightness with God.
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:He is the voice that speaks
to me for all of my life.
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:He's my prophet.
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:Jesus is the only son of God.
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:Remember, God's God the father
says, this is my beloved son.
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:This is my beloved son.
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:He doesn't say that about
any other religious figure.
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:He doesn't say that about Muhammad.
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:He doesn't say that about
any of the gods of Hinduism.
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:He doesn't say that about, uh,
about any other religious figure.
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:No, no one else.
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:This is my beloved son Jesus and
Jesus alone, which means he's
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:my only offer for salvation.
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:You have no other options.
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:If you want to be right with God, then
Jesus, you ought to listen to his words.
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:Jesus is beloved by the Father.
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:Remember, he's the one who
is special in God's sight.
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:Let me ask you this question.
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:Let's pretend for a second.
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:My daughter Phoebe's here.
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:All right?
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:My beloved daughter, Phoebe.
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:Let's say little Phoebe here is
goofing off, and you see here and
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:you're like, oh, Phoebe, that kid.
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:And then you run up and you boo
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:Poor Phoebe's flying.
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:Don't do that to my daughter.
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:What do you think any reasonable
father would do in that situation?
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:He'd pull out his Glock.
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:A
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:okay.
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:I wouldn't do that, but you would
expect that a, a father that loves
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:his beloved daughter would step
up, like, what are you doing?
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:I might lose my job for what I
have to do in response to what
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:you do to my daughter, right?
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:If I put my hands around your
neck, you would understand.
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:If you're kicking my daughter
and you know, you're drop kicking
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:her across the the hallway.
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:How do you think God feels when
we disregard his beloved son's
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:words when he says, this is my son.
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:Listen to him.
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:And you say, well, I'll think about
it if I, if I like what he says.
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:God, maybe he'll listen.
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:But if he in crowds and crouch is on
my life and he tells me to change the
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:way I live, or change the way I talk
or change what I think about the Bible,
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:then I don't know that's asking too much.
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:God has every right to say,
son, you better watch out.
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:Daughter, you better step back
'cause I'm about to come down on you.
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:Jesus is God's beloved son.
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:He's not just a regular guy.
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:You ought to carefully
listen to know what he says.
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:Jesus is pleasing to the Father.
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:This is my beloved son,
with whom I'm well pleased.
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:One of your greatest areas of
weakness is that you know, and
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:I know you're not good enough.
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:We all know that.
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:In fact, this is why we all do what we do.
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:We wanna, we wanna aspire
for a lot of money or status.
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:We wear certain clothes
to signal to people.
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:I'm cool.
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:I'm good enough.
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:I'm worthy enough in Jesus, though we can
be joined with Jesus, and God can look at
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:you and say with you, I am well pleased.
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:Because of your association with Jesus.
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:You don't have to rely on your good looks.
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:You don't have to rely on your intellect.
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:You don't have to rely on
your money making ability.
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:You can say, with Jesus, I, I can
be associated, uh, with him and
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:become well pleasing in God's sight.
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:You gotta carefully consider Jesus'
words 'cause he tells you how to do that.
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:Jesus says, turn from your sin.
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:Put your trust in me, and you
can be well pleasing in my
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:father's side, just like me.
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:Super important that we start there.
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:Gotta pay careful
attention to Jesus' words.
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:Why?
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:Because he's got God's endorsement.
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:He is the son of God.
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:You ought to listen to him.
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:It's one thing to hear Jesus.
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:It's another one to
listen to what he says.
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:I can hear him without doing what he says.
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:I gotta hear and I gotta listen.
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:So the disciples here.
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:When the test comes,
they kind of mess it up.
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:Take a look here, Matthew 17, verses 14
through 20, when the crowds, uh, sorry.
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:And when they came to the crowd, a
man came up to him, kneeling before
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:him, said, Lord, have mercy on my son.
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:Here's another father
talking about his son.
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:There's lots of fathers and sons
in this text here, uh, comes
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:and says, have mercy on my son.
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:He has seizures and suffers terribly.
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:Think about this.
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:Have you ever seen someone have a seizure?
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:Their body gets rigid.
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:They might start foaming from the mouth.
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:They just start, you know, one of.
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:Terrifying.
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:It's a strange experience to see someone
have an actual seizure in front of you.
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:Well notice here his seizures and
his suffering is not only physical.
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:When we see it, we typically think,
oh, he needs a certain medication.
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:He needs to see a doctor to get
diagnosed, and that doctor's gonna
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:give him an anti-seizure medication.
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:That's usually what we
do, pay attention to.
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:What happens though, he often falls
into the fire and into the water.
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:Uh, in and of itself, you might say,
okay, I guess he's seizing, and as
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:he's walking next to the fire in
the water, he seizes up and then he
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:falls into the water in the fire.
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:Wow, that's, that's kind of scary.
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:He says in verse 16, I brought him to your
disciples, and they could not heal him.
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:This is a big deal because his disciples
were given a special authority to heal,
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:and so if they're unable to do the
thing that God says that they should
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:do, something's amiss, something's
broken, and Jesus answered them.
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:No problem.
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:Be patient.
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:I got your back.
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:No.
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:Look at what Jesus says.
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:To his disciples and to this father.
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:Here's what Jesus says.
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:He's flaming.
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:He's spiting fire here.
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:Look at what he says.
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:He says, oh, faithless and
twisted generation, faithless and
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:twisted Jesus is not full punches.
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:He says, part of the reason here that
we're having this issue, the reason the
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:disciples couldn't do is because they
were faithless and they were twisted.
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:They were seeing this the wrong way.
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:How long am I to be with you?
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:And in other words, Jesus saying,
I'm not gonna be here forever.
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:I can't, I, I'm, I've gotta
go to the father soon.
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:How long am I to bear with you?
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:Bring him here to me.
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:Jesus rebuked the what?
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:You see it?
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:Jesus rebuked the, the demon.
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:Well hold on a second here.
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:He had seizures.
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:Jesus is saying here, not that,
not that every seizure is a demon,
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:but he's saying in this case.
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:This physical effect that this young
man was experiencing was the result of
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:a demon inhabiting him and that demon
tried to destroy him, tried to put
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:him in the fire, tried to drown him.
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:The demon was doing something to
him to destroy his physical body.
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:By the way, that's what
demon possession looks like.
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:If you wanna have any sense of, is my
friend possess or is something happening?
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:Typically a demon's goal is to
destroy the human inhabitant or the
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:human person that they're inhabiting.
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:That's what I'm trying to say.
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:The the demon's goal is
to mar the image of God.
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:This is part of their fun.
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:They enjoy hurting mankind.
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:And so one of the signs that there's
a demon behind something is if
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:there's deliberate bodily harm that's
happening because of the demon.
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:Does this still happen today?
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:I believe it does.
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:We just don't.
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:We don't see it the same way anymore
because when we see a seizure or a
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:headache, we just think, oh, it's
automatically a physical thing.
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:Not saying that it's not, but
I'm also saying there could be
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:a spiritual component to it.
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:So he says, uh, rebukes a demon.
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:He goes out, everything's fine.
482
:The Dece, the disciples are
like, okay, Jesus, what happened?
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:We understand that you said
we're a faithless and twisted
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:generation, but what happened?
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:Jesus says, because of your little faith
there baby, baby faith, undeveloped
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:faith, which is by the way, in contrast
to the woman who had great faith.
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:Remember that woman from tire.
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:She's coming for her daughter and he
says, oh, woman, great is your faith.
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:And she was like, oh lord.
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:Even the ma, even the dogs get
the crumbs that fall on the floor.
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:And Jesus says, wow,
your faith is so great.
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:He says, your faith is mega
faith, but of the disciples.
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:He says, you guys have small faith.
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:So interesting because these
are the ones that are, he's
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:training to, to be his leaders.
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:And then he goes on to say, look, if you
have, if you have faith, if you had a
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:robust, healthy, mega faith, you could
say to this mountain, move and go there.
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:Nothing will be impossible for you.
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:Jesus says.
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:In Mark chapter nine, Jesus says
it like this same, same story.
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:Mark provides a slightly
different account.
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:He says, this kind of demon cannot
be driven out by anything but prayer.
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:And I think that's the key for us.
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:Point number two, you ought to
prayerfully pursue mega faith in the sun.
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:Probably what went wrong for the disciples
is that they were just trusting in their
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:previous activity, their prior success.
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:And so when this father brought
his son, they're like, Hey, demon
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:be gone, or whatever they said.
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:They didn't take time to pray.
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:They didn't take time to seek God's will.
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:They didn't take time to pursue
God, God's will in this situation.
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:But if you wanna see someone who has
genuine faith in the sun, if you wanna
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:know, if you have real faith in the sun,
I would ask you, how's your prayer life?
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:That's really where you get
to see things like this.
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:Things that we tell my kids to
do, we tell my kids all the time
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:like, Hey, eat your vegetables.
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:We want them to eat their vegetables.
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:We tell them and we mostly mean it.
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:Like, if you eat your vegetables,
you're gonna be strong.
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:We tell 'em that, but they
only kind of believe us.
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:They only kind of believe us because
they don't actually always eat it.
522
:They just sit there, they'll, you
know, push it around the plate.
523
:Particularly the girls and Jacob,
they'll just push it around the plates.
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:They don't typically eat the veggies,
525
:but we do the same thing with God.
526
:We believe prayer is
powerful until it costs us.
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:Yeah, I believe vegetables make
me healthy, but I'll, I'll.
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:I'll eat them at some
point when I get older.
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:Prayer is faith in action.
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:Prayer is how you show that you
really do have faith in God.
531
:If you don't pray, it's because you
don't believe that God does anything.
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:You don't believe that God has
your best interest at heart.
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:Prayer is one way that we say,
God, I trust that what you tell
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:me is true and that when I pray to
you, you want to hear from me and
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:that this is good for me to do.
536
:Jesus wants us to pray.
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:This is where our faith grows.
538
:This is what's what makes our faith good.
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:In fact, one of the reasons that you
may pray and not find your answer, James
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:says in James four, he says, you desire
and you do not have, so you murder.
541
:You have desires inside of you
where they're unmet, so you
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:just kill people to get it.
543
:Not literally in this
case, murder the heart.
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:You covet and you cannot obtain.
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:So you fight and quarrel.
546
:You do not have James says, because
you do not ask one of the reasons.
547
:Your life is not what you want it to be,
it's because you're not praying about it.
548
:You do not have because you do not ask.
549
:If you want to grow in your
faith, you should pray about it.
550
:If you wanna see progress in
your relationship with God,
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:you should pray about it.
552
:If you want better and deeper
friendships, you should pray about it.
553
:If you wanna see changes that
are significant in your life,
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:you should be praying about it.
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:You do not have because you do not ask.
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:That's the first problem.
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:If you want mega faith in the
sun, genuine, robust faith
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:in the sun, you have to pray.
559
:There's no shortcut.
560
:If Christianity doesn't make
sense to you, you should pray.
561
:God, if you're real, if
the Bible's legit, show me.
562
:I want to know.
563
:And if you have a sincere heart before
God, I doubt he will turn you away.
564
:Say no, I'm not gonna tell you.
565
:I don't want you to know.
566
:Gotta pray.
567
:You do not have because you do not ask.
568
:James says, you ask and do not
receive because you ask wrongly
569
:to spend it on your passions.
570
:This is another hiccup when you're
praying for mega faith in the sun.
571
:Sometimes you're praying
for the wrong thing.
572
:You're praying for things
that are shortsighted.
573
:One of the things that my girls like
to do is they play with everything.
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:Everything and anything.
575
:If it's in their space, if they look at
things, they're just gonna play with it.
576
:One of my daughters was helping cut,
uh, vegetables recently, and so she
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:picked up a knife and she was like,
oh, Phoebe took, come over here.
578
:Phoebe.
579
:Phoebe, come play with me.
580
:Phoebe.
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:She's got a knife on him the whole time.
582
:Come over here, Phoebe.
583
:And she, oh, she just, literally,
she's gonna kill somebody.
584
:Doesn't even think twice about it though.
585
:If she were to say, dad
for my next birthday.
586
:I want a machete.
587
:Machete.
588
:Gimme machete.
589
:Dad, that's all I want.
590
:Would you, if you were me, would
you buy my daughter tabby a machete?
591
:That's a good answer.
592
:I'm glad.
593
:No, no.
594
:You're not allowed to come over Carson.
595
:Her a good, yeah, maybe that that'd work.
596
:No, 'cause I don't want it
to play with the real one.
597
:I think it's okay.
598
:Yes, a good father, a good mother, a
good brother and sister is not gonna buy
599
:their siblings something that they're
probably gonna kill themselves with.
600
:God does the same thing you, you do
not have, because you do not ask.
601
:And when you ask, you ask wrongly
to spend it on your passions.
602
:That is, God is not in the business of
making you selfish, and so if your goal
603
:is to please Jesus, those are prayers
that he'll be interested in answering.
604
:If your goal is to please
yourself, not so much.
605
:He continues you adulterous people.
606
:Do you not know that friendship
with the world is enmity with God?
607
:Therefore, whoever wishes
to be a friend of the world
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:makes himself an enemy of God.
609
:One of God's cares is that your
prayers reflect friendship with God
610
:and not friendship with the world.
611
:So maybe your prayer is,
Hey look, I wanna be famous.
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:I wanna be an pro eSports athlete.
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:God, I wanna be the next That guy.
614
:You guys know who I'm talking about.
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:I don't even have to say his name.
616
:You know who I'm talking about.
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:Maybe God doesn't wanna do that for you
because that would make you more worldly.
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:That would make you more unlike Jesus.
619
:So that's on the per of God's
interested in answering.
620
:Some of you guys wanna
make a ton of money, man.
621
:I see some of the houses down Frontier.
622
:I'm like, oh, I want that house.
623
:And some of the houses in Prosper.
624
:Oh, I want that house.
625
:Some of the houses in Frisco.
626
:Oh, a huge house.
627
:Do you guys know Dion Sanders house
in Prosper just went on the market.
628
:I'm looking at buying it.
629
:I'm telling, telling the truth.
630
:I'm just thinking about
it, thinking about it.
631
:I, I might put a down payment today, it's
on sale, but God probably doesn't want to
632
:gimme that, doesn't wanna give you that.
633
:Not because he doesn't like
giving us good gifts, but because
634
:he knows what our hearts need.
635
:You should pray for mega faith in
the Son because of who the son is.
636
:He's the son of God.
637
:He's the son of man.
638
:He's the one that matters.
639
:And ultimately, your life and
my life matters insofar as we're
640
:supporting what Jesus is doing.
641
:So let's say you get it.
642
:You're praying, well, what
happens when it seems like God
643
:isn't answering our prayers?
644
:We see some things here in what
James says, but there's more.
645
:Take a look with me at
Matthew 17 verses 22 and 23.
646
:Here's another thing that might happen
when we pray to God and God doesn't
647
:answer the way that we think he should.
648
:In fact, Lewis talked a little bit about
this last week and a and a great sermon.
649
:If you weren't here for that, you
should go back and listen to that.
650
:Here's what Jesus says in
Matthew 17, verses 22 and 23.
651
:He says, as they were gathering in
Galilee, Jesus said to them, the son of
652
:man is about to be delivered into the
hands of men, and they will kill him.
653
:They'll kill him, and he will
be raised on the third day.
654
:They're gonna kill the Son of man and
they're gonna raise him on the third day.
655
:The son of man is a term that Jesus
is using to refer to Daniel chapter
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:seven, which is the special name for
the person who would be the ruler.
657
:He'd be the ruler, the ultimate ruler.
658
:This is the God man.
659
:That's why Jesus calls
himself the son of man.
660
:So he says, I'm gonna be
betrayed into the hands of men.
661
:I'm gonna be killed, but I'm
gonna rise in the third day.
662
:Now, notice how the apostles,
uh, the disciples respond.
663
:They were greatly distressed.
664
:They were sad, they were way down.
665
:They're, they're, they're tripping on
this like, what are you talking about?
666
:Jesus, we have every expectation
that you're gonna be the man.
667
:How are you gonna die?
668
:What's this about?
669
:They don't get it.
670
:What they don't get though is that Jesus
is always going to do the father's will,
671
:so you ought to trust the Son to do.
672
:The father's will trust the
son to do the father's will.
673
:Now, here's the problem with that.
674
:The problem is that the father's
will is often not our will.
675
:Your will and God's will
are often not the same.
676
:Maybe a little bit, but in large ways,
your will and God's will are at odds.
677
:So when we say the son, the one who's
well pleasing to the father, the one
678
:that we should have mega faith in, we're
trusting him to do the father's will.
679
:The father's will, is gonna be
against our will most of the time.
680
:I could probably say that with safety,
unless your heart is fully united
681
:with Jesus, you're gonna have a hard
time because he's gonna tell you to
682
:do things that you don't want to do.
683
:Son's gonna do the father's will.
684
:When I went to a summer camp years ago,
we played this game called the trust fall.
685
:It's a terrible game.
686
:I hated it.
687
:But probably the scariest part of the
trust fall A after you step up on the
688
:log or whatever tall thing that you're
standing on, you cross your arms like
689
:this, and then you hope that all of
your friends are still behind you.
690
:The moments that is the scariest
is probably not like when you're
691
:just about to do it, right.
692
:It's not that it's, it's the second
you actually commit to doing it.
693
:That is the scariest part.
694
:The actual falling is kind of thrilling,
but it's the part before the falling.
695
:It's where you lose control.
696
:It's like I'm giving up control
and I'm gonna let myself fall back.
697
:It's terrifying.
698
:Have you ever done this before?
699
:Yeah.
700
:We should do this as one
of our illustrations.
701
:We might do this after
we're done with this.
702
:Nope.
703
:Trust fall.
704
:Scariest part.
705
:Letting go.
706
:Letting go.
707
:And losing control.
708
:But that's what faith looks like.
709
:I'm letting go and I'm letting
God control what happens next.
710
:'cause I can't.
711
:I can't be trusted, but
I know he can be trusted.
712
:Here's some things about the father's
will that we can just read from, from
713
:what Jesus said in these few verses.
714
:The father's will, first of all,
is often painful when Jesus says,
715
:the son of man's gonna be killed.
716
:That's not a joyful experience.
717
:He's not saying Things
are gonna be great for me.
718
:I'm gonna go into Jerusalem.
719
:They're gonna love me.
720
:They're gonna lift me high.
721
:They're gonna put me on a on a throne.
722
:They're gonna crowd me.
723
:It's gonna be wonderful.
724
:No, Jesus' death was painful.
725
:In fact, it was one of the
most painful and excruciating
726
:experiences you could ever imagine.
727
:I.
728
:The father's will for your life is gonna
be painful because here's the thing, the
729
:father's will, is that you be conformed to
the image of the son, which is gonna push
730
:you out of your comfort zone so often for
your good so that you become like Jesus.
731
:It's gonna be painful.
732
:The father's will is often painful.
733
:It is also often perplexing.
734
:Pop quiz.
735
:What does the word perplexing mean?
736
:Call it out.
737
:Confusing.
738
:I'm confused about this.
739
:I chose perplexing 'cause it was
what the, you'll see perplexing.
740
:It's perplexing.
741
:I don't, God, what are you doing?
742
:Have you ever asked that of
God, God, what are you doing?
743
:God, why are you, why is
this situation happening?
744
:Why does my mom not understand this?
745
:Why does my math teacher hate my guts?
746
:Why does my youth pastor talk for so long?
747
:God, why do you do that?
748
:I'm, I'm perplexed.
749
:I don't understand.
750
:Here's the thing, guys.
751
:God's will is like level 500 billion and
we operate on like level three most days.
752
:God is doing 10 billion things
at one time and you and I
753
:can see five of those things.
754
:God is playing 3D chess with a infinite
board of billions of people making
755
:billions of decisions all the time.
756
:And we can see like three
of those things at once.
757
:God sees everything at once,
past, present, and future.
758
:He knows exactly what he's doing, so
you might be confused, but he's not.
759
:That's his will.
760
:You just have to be comfortable to say,
I'm gonna need to trust the son because
761
:he's gonna do things that are gonna be
way outside of my realm of understanding.
762
:The father's will is
always purposeful though.
763
:You might be confused, but God's not
saying, oh, what did I do that for?
764
:Where did I, where did I leave Carson?
765
:I forgot.
766
:Did I get Carson married yet?
767
:No, no.
768
:He's, he's 45 and still single.
769
:I forgot about him.
770
:My bad.
771
:Well, hold on.
772
:Maggie, are you gonna be 45 and single?
773
:How about if you're 46
and you're still single?
774
:No.
775
:Let's commit right now.
776
:No.
777
:Okay.
778
:No pressure.
779
:Think about it.
780
:Let me know.
781
:Talk about it later.
782
:God's will is painful, perplexing,
but it's always purposeful.
783
:God has a plan, and here's
the thing, that plan is good.
784
:God's plan is good.
785
:In fact, lemme just give you the last one.
786
:It is good because it is always perfect.
787
:God's will is always perfectly good.
788
:He will accomplish his greatest
glory and your ultimate good
789
:if you're on God's side.
790
:If you're mega faith is in the sun,
listening to his words, carefully,
791
:considering them, putting them into
practice and trusting the Son to do the
792
:father's will, you have nothing to fear.
793
:It's just gonna be hard.
794
:Just like the son says, I'm gonna be
delivered by the way, the son will be
795
:delivered is a passive word delivered.
796
:Jesus isn't going there by himself.
797
:The father is leading him.
798
:He's recognizing that God's behind it.
799
:They're gonna kill him, and he's
gonna rise on the third day.
800
:What did Jesus accomplish
with this resurrection?
801
:Only the salvation of those who
were to repent and believe in him.
802
:That's it.
803
:Just the salvation of all.
804
:Who would ever trust and believe in Jesus?
805
:That's all the best plan ever.
806
:Jesus had to suffer the the most.
807
:Devastating and painful experience ever.
808
:Father's will is often painful,
perplexing, but it is always
809
:purposeful, and it is perfect.
810
:You ought to trust that.
811
:Finally, as we close out this sermon
here, I need to show you this last
812
:section, which is kind of unusual, but
let me show you the point behind it.
813
:They came to Capernaum.
814
:This is Peter's hometown.
815
:This is likely Jesus hometown as well.
816
:He was staying with Peter.
817
:Collectors of the two drop attacks.
818
:Came to Peter and said, does
your teacher not pay the tax?
819
:Peter's like, yes, of course he does.
820
:It goes to Jesus and says, Hey, Jesus,
uh, about that tax, you didn't pay it yet.
821
:Uh, I didn't pay it yet.
822
:Are we gonna, are we gonna
get to that some point soon?
823
:Jesus says to him, Simon,
what do you think about this?
824
:From whom do the kings of earth take toll
or tax from their sons or from others?
825
:So, of course, Peter says, well, from
others, not from the sons, the sons of the
826
:kings don't pay the, the, the royal taxes.
827
:He says, you're absolutely right.
828
:Then the sons are free.
829
:The sons are free.
830
:Who's the son that's in mind here?
831
:Here's fathers and sons again.
832
:The son of God is free.
833
:He doesn't have to pay the temple tax.
834
:It's his temple.
835
:It's like Jesus saying, let me
give $2 from my right hand and my
836
:left hand, like this is my money.
837
:Nothing's happening here.
838
:However, he says not to
give offense to them.
839
:Go and catch a fish in the fish's
mouth is gonna be enough money for
840
:both of us and go give it to them.
841
:That's what happens here.
842
:Jesus tells Peter something remarkable.
843
:If you are alive with Jesus, if
you are part of Jesus' family, you
844
:got special Jesus level privileges.
845
:Point number four, you ought to
enjoy the privileges of sonship.
846
:Sonship.
847
:Sonship is another way to say being
a child, being a son in the family.
848
:Of course, you could say, enjoy
the privileges of daughtership.
849
:That just doesn't sound as nice.
850
:Sonship being a son or
daughter in a family.
851
:When I came to FCA, um, I forgot my id.
852
:Um, and if you know anything about
FCA, they don't let you in unless
853
:you have an ID during school hours.
854
:And so I came like, no, but
I, but I'm here all the time.
855
:I'm a pastor.
856
:Uh, I like, I'm, I've got a degree.
857
:Like I, I'm okay.
858
:I'm not gonna hurt anybody.
859
:Uh, but they weren't listening until
I had the headmaster with me and the
860
:headmaster's like, oh, he's chill.
861
:Let him pass.
862
:Headmaster just had to give a wave
of the hand, and she's like, all
863
:right, you go, sir, I strolled
on in and dreaded after them.
864
:You can't touch this.
865
:Now stopping me.
866
:I was able to get in because of the
access that the headmaster had, not
867
:because I didn't have my my id, so
I couldn't get in, so I trusted her.
868
:She got me in.
869
:You get access to God, not because you
earn it, but because of who you're with.
870
:Who you're with in this case is the son.
871
:The son gives you full and
free access to the father.
872
:In fact, family
privileges, two major ones.
873
:Okay, here you go.
874
:Number one.
875
:Riches in Christ.
876
:Actually, I have three here.
877
:Riches in Christ.
878
:Number two, freedom from
the Old Testament law.
879
:Number three, full Never ending
Acceptance by the Father.
880
:These are three family privileges that
you get when you are allied with Christ.
881
:When you repent of your sin,
put your trust in Jesus.
882
:You are given the full riches of Christ.
883
:The sons are free.
884
:Jesus says, the sons are
free in Christ, they're rich.
885
:You have all of the heavenly
blessings that Heaven can offer.
886
:They're yours in Christ.
887
:Secondly, you are free
from the Old Testament law.
888
:You no longer are obligated to sacrifice
goats and sheep and things like that.
889
:Praise God for that.
890
:If you've ever read the book of Leviticus,
you'll feel how important that is.
891
:Lastly, I, again, I had to come back
to this 'cause it's so important.
892
:Being allied with Jesus, turning from
your sin, putting your trust in him means
893
:that you will never, ever find yourself
on the business end of God's wrath.
894
:You'll always enjoy full never ending
acceptance by the father, and this is
895
:what you and I most desperately want.
896
:There's a thousand voices
telling you who to follow, who
897
:to listen to, what to trust.
898
:Wouldn't it be great if God just
opened the heavens and told us
899
:who to listen to and who to trust?
900
:Of course, this is what Jesus did.
901
:This is what He did for you and for me.
902
:Our job is to ask the question.
903
:Are we listening?
904
:Says who Well says God.
905
:He's the one who says,
listen to Jesus, follow him.
906
:Are you listening?
907
:Are you willing to submit
yourself to the beloved son?
908
:If so, two major takeaways.
909
:One, if you're not a Christian,
listen to the beloved son.
910
:Repent of your sin and
put your trust in him.
911
:Two, if you are a Christian, what
area of your life has Jesus spoken?
912
:And you're still just dragging your
heels saying, well, I'll get to
913
:it eventually, or when I grow up.
914
:This is my beloved son.
915
:The father says, listen to him.
916
:Let's pray about that and we'll go
talk about it in our small groups.
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:Now, God help us to pay
attention to the Son.
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:He is the Son of God.
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:The Son of man.
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:You've proven it, Lord, you've
given us every reason to believe.
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:We pray that you help us now to
do that, to believe in Him, and to
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:show our belief in him by actions.
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:Let those actions be solidified
tonight in our small groups.
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:In Jesus name, amen.
